There's no denying it: it's fun sleeping with someone you barely know.
I know, I know, there's a load of people that would frown upon such a statement, but we all know it's true.
Join free and see why so many people use us - but no telling tales if you see someone you know on the site...
It used to be that one night stands were taboo, but not any more!
Likewise don't leave your email logged in so that someone else can see messages your getting from other members.
Before we start talking about “Dating in Japan” one thing should be crystal clear: If you’ve ever been to Japan you might have noticed that there’s a tremendous number of (often not so handsome) foreign guys walking hand-in-hand with Japanese women.
For foreign women it’s a completely different story. However, be warned: If you want to read about bragging stories of all those Western guys who get laid a hundred times per day, then you came to the wrong place. You certainly won’t find that here – and not from a foreign girl like me!And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!All in all, it is easy for a Western foreign man to find a Japanese woman or to have a nice relationship here in Japan.For some guys it really gets to their heads and they start bragging about it like crazy as part of the superstar syndrome.In fact, it was all a little unfair, as men who had flings were studs, whereas women doing the same were labelled something else beginning with 's'! Now, it's totally normal for people to experiment with different partners without facing judgment and in fact it's almost a right to do so. The thing we love is how even the most mild mannered, shy and reserved types always surprise us.It's been accepted that women should be able to enjoy themselves just as much as men and that's really made casual dating more acceptable. These days, if you meet a geeky guy or a mousy girl, odds are that they are actually quite experienced. It's important to understand that this is a discreet dating site, and that means that our members take their privacy extremely seriously.The main thing is to make sure that access to your email, web browser and mobile phone are secure.If you share a computer, make sure you don't leave a browsing history visible. One night stand sites offer a great way to meet in a safe and private environment.stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.).Maybe they also think that a foreign woman might expect from their man that he’s telling his feelings straight out several times a day, something a shy Japanese man just won’t do.