You know her better than I do, so hopefully you’ve got a grasp on how she’d handle being approached by another woman. well, I’d say approach with caution.) But regardless of the circumstances, the fact of the matter is: you’re in a platonic relationship that you would like to turn into a romantic or sexual one.
Before you make that leap, however, you should take some time to do some investigating interest?
Even in the more gay-friendly, cosmopolitan big cities, there are folks who do not react well to being approached by somebody of the same sex or who’s genderqueer or otherwise nonconforming.
Does she make little preening gestures when she sees you?
Is she more physical with you than she is with her other friends?
What do you do when you’ve finally screwed up the courage to tell your special someone how you feel? Perhaps you started off as friends and realized over time that your feelings have changed.
Or perhaps you weren’t sure whether you make a move; in Gi L’s case, being cautious and taking a more roundabout route isn’t necessarily a bad idea.