Why should I shut down all my options while someone “tests drives” me?I know many women don’t mind that risk — and often want the trial period with a potential partner themselves — I hold no judgment against them. My past experience had taught me that once in the girlfriend zone, I started to hope the relationship would lead to marriage. So when Chris asked me to be his girlfriend, I refused.The only advice I can offer is to be more selective when choosing a partner.If you want a monogamous relationship, then don't get yourself involved with someone who is seeing two people.If it's isn't serious at all, and we're just fucking with no thoughts towards being "together" together - then I couldn't care less. If you knew she was seeing someone else (I'm assuming she was upfront about it since you knew about it) and you chose to have sex with her just to get it in, then why is she the bad guy here?
If she doesn't feel the same way about you then should move on and find someone else because its not really worth the pain of chasing her if she doesn't appreciate you. The dude whos facebook posts are constantly about her isnt a worry, she probably uses him as leverage for such situations, for car rides, for drugs.. were not exclusive so i guess its not cheating but i dont ask if she is fucking anyone else.
I am an empowered woman of the 21st century: I run a company, have a master’s degree and earn a handsome six-figure salary.
Yet at heart, I am and have always been a lover of old-fashioned romance.
That would all be very nice, but it wouldn’t give me any assurance about the future, which was what I needed to feel safe.
The offer I wanted included a proposal and being told I would forever be his one and only.