never been with a man but i have been having amazing urges lately. extremely interested in the bottom position for sex. all i can think about is men and giving a bj and receiveing one.It was great..I didn't have to get going I would have gone back into the sauna to see if he would have followed me.I'm hoping to see him at the gym again and have him join me in the sauna. If your here you have at lest come this far in admitting that you are bi, so congrats on getting that far. all i can think about is men and giving a bj and receiveing one.I have my suspicions about him being bi.he just kept drying off his body in front of me while we talked.He has a great body..he's shaved/ pretty clean around his cock and definitely totally clean around his balls..were dangling jewels. I had my boxer briefs on but I could feel myself getting hard.And I've been *very* careful to be extra thoughtful and attentive, we're going to do some marital counseling, etc, too.I think you have to remember, in the whirl of self-acceptance and EYE CANDY EVERYWHERE that when you are married, it really isn't just about you.
We have more than 250,000 members and our network is completely free.And the last thing ya want to do ( I am assuming) is to put her and your self in harms way of catching an STD. Coming to terms with this can be a difficult process, but you'll find this to be a supportive place. You'll always be what you always were, which has nothing to do with- all to do with- her" -from "Sorry-Grateful" from the musical "Company" by Stephen Sondheim Hey guys, loving these stories - oh how familiar! All the best..Ian, you're in the UK I think, me too. i have wanted this for so long I have had bi urges off and on for years, but now that I'm in my 40's, they've gotten strong. It's great to hear this is somewhat normal (I'm not alone!So talk with her tell her your desires and find a safe and sane (that can be the hard part) partner. And listen to what exnavyguy said in his post above- Those of us who are married and bi walk a slippery slope, and it's best to be open and honest with our wives. There seem to be a ton of ways to get to meet guy men for sex and while that may be great, it seems harder to do what I'd like to do which is to meet men in my situation..are living lives as straight men, and who want to explore their gay side, probabaly for the first time or first few times. ) Exnavy & Timmy - I give you both a ton of credit for talking directly to your wives about this.Curious as to how you approached that and how it went?Also I suppose just clarifying, in my opinion, I don't necessarily see the need to talk to the wife about any of this if it is still in the 'curious' phase. I currently have no intention of telling mine as it's all theoretical (jsut as I wouldn't tell her if I was fantasizing over some hot chick, either.) Though if I do find myself in a position of acting out on some of these feelings... Mingle2's Bi chat rooms are full of fun, sexy singles like you. these feelings are overwhelming and i dont know where to start to meet or talk to people to explore my feelings.As far as being turned on by guys, we all understand Thing is can you talk with your wife? never been with a man but i have been having amazing urges lately. extremely interested in the bottom position for sex.Are you ready to tell her, because cheaters ALWAYS get caught whether by total accident or outa guilt and confession. these feelings are overwhelming and i dont know where to start to meet or talk to people to explore my feelings. I'm new, but this site has allowed me to explore a more emotional part of my feelings. Funny how much stronger the feelings have gotten over the years, especially the past few.I try not to think about getting hard unless I'm in an area that is more private like a sauna.I was at the gym yesterday and saw a guy that I know from the gym.