With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.Without these traits, guys are destined to a sex life consisting primarily of voyeurism and masturbation. Obviously if you find soembody attratcive let thme know you are interested but wooing soemobdy you hardly know as a person is a little much The whole being pursued thing is tricky becasue if you show to much interest in a girl you hardly know isnt that pretty desperate and creepy?What exacerbates these guys' problems is that they often get kicked when they're are already down. Obviously if you find soembody attratcive let thme know you are interested but wooing soemobdy you hardly know as a person is a little much Confidence is attractive yes, but with the right balance of humility, you shouldn't seem like a poser.
It was just the idea that shy behavior actually got a positive response for other people (even as it never got a thing for me) that I'm curious about; I'm left wondering what makes the difference between shyness that is viewed positively vs. Average-looking shy men generally get attention from only certain women: unattractive women.
So that’s one of the four things I talk about in the video: 1.
The guy is always expected to initiate, which means risking rejection and embarrassment. An introverted guy may not know WHERE to begin meeting women. A shy guy may be too sensitive to getting positive signals or “green lights” from a woman before showing her he’s interested by asking her out, asking for her phone number, going for the kiss, etc.
Usually she thinks these are obvious, but to guys they’re very subtle…
so a girl could like you for years without you ever knowing and asking her out. I’m speaking from personal experience as well as YEARS of interacting with shy guys who can’t seem to attract a girlfriend even though they are intelligent, not ugly, and good people.