He’s doing what’s practical not to scare people off.
Negotiating the highs and lows of the dating game can be a complicated affair at the best of times.If you find that you just can’t wait until your divorce is final to start dating again, this article provides a few “do’s and don’ts” of dating before you are divorced.Unfortunately, there is more that you shouldn’t do than should, but first let’s clarify what is meant by “dating.” Legally, “dating” means one-on-one social contact with another person.Any advice would be wonderful- thanks in advance for your response!Dear Sara, We all make judgments based on our own experience.It wasn’t a question of whether he and his wife were going to divorce – the relationship was toxic, the lawyers were in place, it was definitely over. They were well-matched and perfectly adorable together. You can listen to all these stories, but they won’t inform YOUR situation.The real concern was whether this guy needed time and space after the demise of his marriage. Here are the three points I’d like you to take away from this blog post: A person who hides his separation online isn’t necessarily a bad person.So before you find yourself drawn into an unhappy situation, get the real picture.Ask your partner if he/she has actually filed for divorce and not merely seeing a lawyer or checking with his/her shrink.However when your partner happens to be in the midst of divorce proceedings, there can be even more issues to work through.Here are a few things to keep in mind when you are dating someone who is going through a divorce.